Meet Alexander
Educator, Coach & Mentor
I work with boys and young men who find themselves at a crossroads. Whether you're navigating a major life transition, feeling stuck in patterns you’re ready to outgrow, or striving to rise beyond a plateau of high performance, I offer coaching designed to help you shift course.
My approach is especially suited to those who are:
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Stuck in the “in-between” — no longer who you were, not yet who you could be and feeling frustrated with lack of progress.
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Facing a failure-to-launch pattern, or a dopamine-cycle of addictive behavior, unsure how to break through into your purpose.
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High-functioning but misaligned, seeking meaning, clarity, and new direction.
My Coaching work is informed by almost 2 decades of supporting and teaching in high-needs school environments and working as a Mentor & Director for BTM Canada, a youth-centered charity, as well as through my own greatest life transformations of addiction recovery and spiritual reckoning.
My approach and methods revolve around excavating Truth within ourselves and from these insights living and actualizing a meaningful life of integrity, authenticity and great purpose. My sessions and programs will help you shift from a current way of being that isn't working, into a new way that is more aligned with your highest potential, bringing about the change that you yearn for.
Areas of Expertise and Focus
-Major life changes and transitions
-Addiction recovery
-E.D., masculine sexuality and relationship
-Motivation and procrastination
-Academic Coaching
-Rage, anger and self-control
-Spiritual mentorship
-Autism & Neuro-divergence
-Development of integrity, honesty and responsibility
Mission
My mission and service to the world is centered in creating, sustaining and facilitating spaces of Truth. “Truth” here means a way of being that is rooted in natural goodness, in clear seeing of what is True and Real and being in a willing earnestness to ‘shed skins’ of old identity, belief and habit, in the movement towards Self, happiness and freedom. This is about development and transcending, yet including, ways of being that are rooted in the past.
My Coaching Principles
My mission as a coach expresses itself through the following principles.
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The Upliftment of Truth
In our culture, hiding true feelings is common. A coach attunes with Truth as the highest ideal and thus models authenticity and self-knowing. Embracing Truth enables the client to shed societal masks and authentically be himself, which uplifts him in numerous ways.
Coaching is a ‘travel partnership’ devoted to the client's growth and well-being. A coach's consistent presence and guidance aims to connect the client to his own inner wisdom (again and again), empowering him on his unique path of self-discovery and potent action in the world.
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Accompaniment
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Growth & Shedding Skin
A coach plays a crucial role in identifying areas of growth/development, guiding a client by nurturing and fertilizing that growth/development. Additionally, coaches assist clients in recognizing and shedding old "skins" of identity, beliefs or habits and helping clients foster a growth mindset within his life.
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Listening & A Higher Power
A coach subtly, yet actively listens within and without, modeling connectedness to life’s pulse. In doing so, the coach invites the client into deep listening of his own heart and to the call of a Higher Power he feels connected to in order to transcend ways of being/behavior that no longer serve his life and happiness.
What clients have to say
If he is indeed wise, he does not bid you
enter the house of his wisdom but rather
leads you to the threshold of your own
mind
The Prophet
Khalil Gibran